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Volume 7 Issue 7 -- July 2010
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Feature Article
 

Take Time to Rejuvenate Yourself
 

E. Carol Webster, Ph.D. 
Copyright ©  2010

Summer is a great time to rejuvenate yourself. Businesses are working harder than ever with fewer staff and resources, so be sure that you are fortified for the increased stresses and challenges. Gain strength from your support network and from life’s pleasures that bring you joy. Take advantage of the slower pace that many companies experience in the summer so you feel ready when the new pace kicks in in the Fall.

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Enjoy Time with Your Family

Family reunions and other gatherings of friends and family abound in the summer, so enjoy them all. The pat on the back here, the kiss on the cheek there, all provide nurturance and refueling. They validate you and the hard work you’re doing year round and signal the message that, no matter what, you’re loved and belong to a family who is there for you. Enjoy that support and relish the attention they heap upon you during these uplifting family times.

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Rediscover Your Hobbies

The busy pace of the year often prevents enjoyment of favorite hobbies. During the summer, use the downtime to dust off these activities and allow yourself to have some fun!  Even if they are activities you do by yourself, this is fine. They warm your soul and bring you joy. This is what makes them rejuvenating for you. And if you’ve never gotten around to developing any recreational interests or hobbies, this is a great time for you to start. It helps you to manage stress and generally brings you pleasure and satisfaction with your life.

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Be A Bum

It’s essential for you to be productive when you’re at work, but the breaks you get to take during the summer are time for you to chill and do nothing. Bum around. Lounge by the pool. Get extra sleep. You need to rejuvenate yourself so that you’re ready to face the new business cycle, so enjoy your down time fully. Don’t feel the need to “go somewhere good” or “do something” during every minute of this time. It’s okay to have “no purpose” and to simply enjoy lazing around to refuel.

Welcome the summer as a time to rejuvenate yourself. Connect with family and friends you haven’t had time to enjoy, and rediscover those activities that bring you joy but that you never have time to savor because of your hectic pace. This will provide you with nurturance and will fortify you for the business cycle ahead. You’ll feel ready to face the new challenges that await you because of the time you’ve taken to take care of yourself.

  

 About the Author: 
Dr. E. Carol Webster is a clinical psychologist consultant in Fort Lauderdale, FL and is author of 
Success Management: How to Get to the Top and Keep Your Sanity Once You Get There
and The Fear of Success: Stop It From Stopping You!

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My coworker comes on too strong and it’s getting on my nerves. He tries to take control of everything and keeps pushing what he wants on everyone. I just want to tell him to get lost!

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Pushing back is not necessarily a bad thing. There are times when you must be assertive. It’s important to safeguard your own interests and rights. Bossy people often get their way because others let them. Over time, the controlling individual becomes more emboldened and doesn’t give you room to state your wishes. He or she jumps in quickly and skillfully ignores or overrules you when you do speak up. This means that you have to express yourself very clearly and firmly so that your wishes are taken seriously. You should “win” sometimes, as should others, so don’t tell Mr. Bossy to get lost – let him know that this time you’ll be taking the lead!

 
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I was brought up knowing that you don’t let anybody get you down and you don’t let anybody get the best of you.

 -- Charlayne Hunter Gault

 

 Success Tip

Simple Truths

Managers should never forget these three simple truths.

  1. You can never expect your people to have a greater vision for the company than the one that your actions demonstrate that you have.

  2. If your people believe the company is trying to take advantage of them, many will try to take advantage of the company. Some will succeed.

  3. You can never expect your people to be more ethical than you are. Even if you’ve never done anything against them, if they see you cutting corners with customers, why shouldn’t they cut corners with you?


Filling the Glass:
The Skeptics Guide to Positive Thinking in
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 Barry Maher
Barry Maher & Associates, California, 2007

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