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Volume 5 Issue 2-- February 2008
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Dr. Webster is author of Success Management: How to Get to the Top and Keep Your Sanity Once You Get There and The Fear of Success: Stop It From Stopping You!

Feature Article
 

Overconfidence

E. Carol Webster, Ph.D. 
Copyright ©  2008

Managers spend a lot of time worrying about low performers and motivating staff to excel. This is important, but may cause you to underestimate the types of problems created by overconfident employees. The high self-confidence that propels them, can hinder them too so they also need your attention. These folks have plenty of egos for themselves and everybody else, and this may mislead you into believing they have everything under control. Indeed, they usually are energetic and hardworking in pursuit of the company mission. Typically, you don’t have to worry about whether they’re on time for work or look over their shoulder to see if they’re on task. Most show initiative and take the lead on things easily, tending not to get hung up on the types of fears and constraints that keep those with low confidence from making decisions and taking action.  But particularly when stressed, the overconfident can go too far -- causing you to have to jump in to fix their mistakes, contentious run ins with colleagues and clients, and other problems. They need supervision and coaching too, so look out for the following: 

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Excessive Risk-Taking

These individuals don’t need a broad safety net and can make tough decisions even when the absolute success of the outcome is not assured. When they are on their game, they are typically correct in their judgments and experience more successes than failures. But like everything else, too much of a good thing can become a problem and some folks are long on ego and short on substance. They like challenges and the thrill of the unknown, generally believing that their chances of failing are small. This empowers them to take risks that others would avoid, sometimes with inadequate care about how their actions will impact them – and you

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Inadequate Planning

Because the thrill is in the action, your overconfident staff may feel bored by excruciating details and the analysis that might be necessary to avoid problems. Grandiosity tells them that those facts and figures don’t pertain to them because, in their view, they are relying on special talents, abilities, or other assets that their colleagues don’t have. Some may actually cut lots of corners and avoid the sweat necessary to attain a goal while managing to look very busy and absorbed. Thus, upon closer examination, you may find their planning to be lacking -- resulting in half-baked ideas at times and results that don’t meet expectations.  

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Blind Optimism

Overconfident folks are eternal optimists and doggedly believe that their dreams are realizable. They are convinced that the plans they set in motion are going to work out. This drives them to remain persistent when others would have given up long ago. They don’t easily feel defeated and don’t like being around people who might cause them to feel this way. They are prone to oust critics from their success entourage because these advisors point out flaws in their logic or identify potential problems, bringing them down to earth and causing them to keep their feet on the ground. This makes them feel too “ordinary”, so they push these people away and “put them in their place” by becoming condescending and berating. With critical feedback out of the way, the overconfident may throw more time, effort, and resources than is warranted into flagging projects -- a reality their managers might not fully grasp until there is a crisis and they have to get involved to clean up the mess or do damage control. 

Confident employees are a pleasure, but those who are too full of themselves can make decisions and take actions that result in serious negative consequences for a company, not to mention for their own career. Their feelings of invincibility cause them to ignore the warning signs that guide others. So take time to provide coaching to help temper their grandiosity and adequate supervision and training to help them learn when and how to make course adjustments when their original ideas and plans are not working out. This will help them attain a truly grand level of success!  

   About the Author: 
Dr. E. Carol Webster is a clinical psychologist and speaker in consulting practice in Fort Lauderdale, FL and is author of 
Success Management: How to Get to the Top and Keep Your Sanity Once You Get There
and The Fear of Success: Stop It From Stopping You!

 

Ask Dr. Webster...

Dear Dr. Webster: I can’t understand why people wear these cell phone ear buds everywhere as if they’re stuck in their ears. I just sat on a panel discussion with some people and one guy kept that stupid ear bud on the whole time!

--Is It Me?

 

Dear Is It Me: No, it’s not you. Your fellow panel discussant has a problem. Nobody’s that important and if a person can’t bear to go ear bud-less for the length of time it takes to serve on a panel and give the audience full attention, he or she shouldn’t agree to participate. It’s not the problem of being rude and taking a call in the midst of a presentation, meeting, or other forum. That’s a separate problem. Thankfully, many ear bud wearers aren’t doing that. It’s the pretentiousness that’s the problem. These individuals need to appear hotly in demand, engaged in big dealings, having to monitor their calls (or at least appear as if they are) at all times – unlike the rest of the “little people”. The need is to signal stature and status. That betrays ego problems and lets you know that this need to show off is a compensation for self-esteem and/or other “issues”. So rather than be aggravated, take pity that these folks can’t sit through a single presentation without being able to part with their ego-enhancements and be glad that you don’t need this type of boost.

  --Dr. Webster

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Success Motivator

When rungs were missing, I learned to jump.

 -- William Warfield

 

Success Tip

First Who. . . Then What

·         The good-to-great leaders began the transformation by first getting the right people on the bus (and the wrong people off the bus) and then figured out where to drive it.

·         The key point of this chapter is not just the idea of getting the right people on the team. The key point is that “who” questions come before “what’ decisions—before vision, before strategy, before organization structure, before tactics. First who, then what—as a rigorous discipline, consistently applied.

·         The comparison companies frequently followed the “genius with a thousand helps” model—a genius leader who sets a vision and then enlists a crew of highly capable ‘helpers” to make the vision happen. This model fails when the genius departs.

·         The good-to-great leaders were rigorous, not ruthless, in people decisions. They did not rely on layoffs and restructuring as a primary strategy for improved performance. The comparison companies used layoffs to a much greater extent.

·         We uncovered three practical disciplines for being rigorous in people decisions:

1.      When in doubt, don’t hire—keep looking…

2.      When you know you need to make a people change, act...

3.      Put your best people on your biggest opportunities, not your biggest problems…

·         Good –to-great management teams consist of people who debate vigorously in search of the best answers, yet who unify behind decisions, regardless of parochial interests…

From the book:
Good to Great
by Jim Collins
New York,
 Collins,  2001

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