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Success!Ezine
Volume 5 Issue 2-- February 2008
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E. Carol Webster, Ph.D. is a clinical psychologist and
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Dr. Webster is author of
Success Management: How to Get to the Top and Keep
Your Sanity Once You Get There and The
Fear of Success: Stop It From Stopping You! |
Feature Article
Overconfidence
E. Carol Webster, Ph.D.
Copyright © 2008
Managers spend a lot of time worrying about low performers and
motivating staff to excel. This is important, but may cause you to
underestimate the types of problems created by overconfident
employees. The high self-confidence that propels them, can hinder them
too so they also need your attention. These folks have plenty of egos
for themselves and everybody else, and this may mislead you into
believing they have everything under control. Indeed, they usually are
energetic and hardworking in pursuit of the company mission. Typically,
you don’t have to worry about whether they’re on time for work or look
over their shoulder to see if they’re on task. Most show initiative and
take the lead on things easily, tending not to get hung up on the types
of fears and constraints that keep those with low confidence from making
decisions and taking action. But particularly when stressed, the
overconfident can go too far -- causing you to have to jump in to fix
their mistakes, contentious run ins with colleagues and clients, and
other problems. They need supervision and coaching too, so look out for
the following:
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Excessive
Risk-Taking |
These individuals don’t need a broad safety net and can make tough decisions
even when the absolute success of the outcome is not assured. When they are
on their game, they are typically correct in their judgments and experience
more successes than failures. But like everything else, too much of a good
thing can become a problem and some folks are long on ego and short on
substance. They like challenges and the thrill of the unknown, generally
believing that their chances of failing are small. This empowers them to
take risks that others would avoid, sometimes with inadequate care about how
their actions will impact them – and you.
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Inadequate Planning |
Because the thrill is in the action, your overconfident staff may feel bored
by excruciating details and the analysis that might be necessary to avoid
problems. Grandiosity tells them that those facts and figures don’t pertain
to them because, in their view, they are relying on special talents,
abilities, or other assets that their colleagues don’t have. Some may
actually cut lots of corners and avoid the sweat necessary to attain a goal
while managing to look very busy and absorbed. Thus, upon closer
examination, you may find their planning to be lacking -- resulting in
half-baked ideas at times and results that don’t meet expectations.
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Blind
Optimism |
Overconfident folks are eternal optimists and doggedly believe that their
dreams are realizable. They are convinced that the plans they set in motion
are going to work out. This drives them to remain persistent when others
would have given up long ago. They don’t easily feel defeated and don’t like
being around people who might cause them to feel this way. They are prone to
oust critics from their success entourage because these advisors point out
flaws in their logic or identify potential problems, bringing them down to
earth and causing them to keep their feet on the ground. This makes them
feel too “ordinary”, so they push these people away and “put them in their
place” by becoming condescending and berating. With critical feedback out of
the way, the overconfident may throw more time, effort, and resources than
is warranted into flagging projects -- a reality their managers might not
fully grasp until there is a crisis and they have to get involved to clean
up the mess or do damage control.
Confident employees are a pleasure, but those who are too full of themselves
can make decisions and take actions that result in serious negative
consequences for a company, not to mention for their own career. Their
feelings of invincibility cause them to ignore the warning signs that guide
others. So take time to provide coaching to help temper their grandiosity
and adequate supervision and training to help them learn when and how to
make course adjustments when their original ideas and plans are not working
out. This will help them attain a truly grand level of success!
About the Author:
Dr. E. Carol Webster is a clinical psychologist and speaker in consulting practice in Fort
Lauderdale, FL and is author of
Success Management: How to
Get to the Top and Keep Your Sanity Once You Get There
and The Fear of Success:
Stop It From Stopping You!
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Ask Dr. Webster...
Dear Dr. Webster:
I can’t understand why people wear these cell phone ear buds everywhere as
if they’re stuck in their ears. I just sat on a panel discussion with some
people and one guy kept that stupid ear bud on the whole time!
--Is It Me?

Dear Is It Me: No, it’s not you. Your fellow panel discussant has a
problem. Nobody’s that important and if a person can’t bear to go ear
bud-less for the length of time it takes to serve on a panel and give the
audience full attention, he or she shouldn’t agree to participate. It’s not
the problem of being rude and taking a call in the midst of a presentation,
meeting, or other forum. That’s a separate problem. Thankfully, many ear bud
wearers aren’t doing that. It’s the pretentiousness that’s the
problem. These individuals need to appear hotly in demand, engaged in big
dealings, having to monitor their calls (or at least appear as if
they are) at all times – unlike the rest of the “little people”. The need is
to signal stature and status. That betrays ego problems and lets you know
that this need to show off is a compensation for self-esteem and/or other
“issues”. So rather than be aggravated, take pity that these folks can’t sit
through a single presentation without being able to part with their
ego-enhancements and be glad that you don’t need this type of boost.
--Dr. Webster
Got a Question?
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Success Motivator
When rungs were missing, I learned to
jump.
-- William Warfield

Success Tip
First Who. . . Then What
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The good-to-great leaders began the transformation by first
getting the right people on the bus (and the wrong people off the bus) and
then figured out where to drive it.
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The key point of this chapter is not just the idea of
getting the right people on the team. The key point is that “who” questions
come before “what’ decisions—before vision, before strategy, before
organization structure, before tactics. First who, then
what—as a rigorous discipline, consistently applied.
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The comparison companies frequently followed the “genius with
a thousand helps” model—a genius leader who sets a vision and then enlists a
crew of highly capable ‘helpers” to make the vision happen. This model fails
when the genius departs.
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The good-to-great leaders were rigorous, not ruthless, in
people decisions. They did not rely on layoffs and restructuring as a
primary strategy for improved performance. The comparison companies used
layoffs to a much greater extent.
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We uncovered three practical disciplines for being rigorous in
people decisions:
1.
When in doubt, don’t hire—keep looking…
2.
When you know you need to make a people change, act...
3.
Put your best people on your biggest opportunities, not your
biggest problems…
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Good –to-great management teams consist of people who debate
vigorously in search of the best answers, yet who unify behind decisions,
regardless of parochial interests…
From the book:
Good to Great
by Jim Collins
New York, Collins, 2001
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